Preparing to sell
Should I market my Los Angeles home privately before listing it publicly?
Short answer
Marketing your Los Angeles home privately before a public launch can make sense when privacy, controlled access or timing is a priority. The tradeoff is that fewer buyers may see the property, giving you less opportunity to compare offers and test the price against broader demand. Choose a private phase only when your agent can explain its purpose, who it will reach and when you will reassess the strategy.
From Ken's experience
A private listing versus a public listing is a topic that’s getting a lot of attention these days. On one side of the argument, there’s clear cooperation rules of most multiple listing services and public real estate websites like Zillow, and on the other side of the argument, there’s real estate agencies and certain consumers and the assertion that homeowners should be allowed the freedom to choose how their homes are marketed.
A private, or a private-exclusive, listing is not a one-size fits all solution or a solution that fits everyone’s situation. The “marketing” aspect is limited to the real estate company that you list with (hence, private). In fact, marketing a private listing publicly triggers the rules for clear cooperation requirements to have the property go into the MLS.
I have some private-exclusive listings now. There are specific reasons each of these listings are private now. One is consumer choice. After discussing all of the facts and the process and all of the choices, clearly, the consumer decided to take this route. Another is private-exclusive for the time being because the owner doesn’t want to deal with open houses, people seeing the listing online and driving by, scheduling a large number of viewing appointments etc., while they are still living in the home. Later, though, downstream, this may change if we get to that point.
Private-exclusive may seem “special”. That definitely works for some listings. Not nearly all, though. The best way to get the highest possible price and terms that the market will bear for most sellers is to subject the listing publicly to the entire market using a specific and detailed, proven marketing plan like I construct for every listing.
Private-exclusive can, at times, be a part of that. It’s situational. Depends on circumstances. It’s not a magical solution or a better way. I’m happy to talk and discuss what options fit for you.
Ken Sisson, Studio City and Sherman Oaks real estate broker
Start with what private marketing would accomplish
A private launch should solve a specific problem or support a clear goal.
Possible reasons include:
- Privacy: You want to limit public photographs, attention or exposure of your living arrangements.
- Controlled access: Work, health, family or security considerations make widespread showings difficult.
- Timing: You would consider selling now on acceptable terms but have a later date in mind for a broader launch.
- A specific buyer opportunity: Your agent has identified a potentially suitable buyer whose price, financing and timing warrant consideration.
Ask whether those goals could also be met through a public listing with appointment-only showings and carefully selected photographs. Private marketing is one option, not a requirement for controlling access to your home.
Understand what “private” actually means
Brokerage marketing names do not necessarily describe the listing’s MLS status or who can see it.
Three approaches can work differently:
- Office exclusive: The listing is withheld from distribution to other MLS participants and is not publicly marketed. Exposure generally centers on the listing brokerage and its clients, subject to applicable rules.
- Delayed marketing: The listing is available to other agents through the MLS, while distribution through certain public website feeds is delayed. This is different from keeping the property off the MLS.
- Coming soon: This is an MLS status where available. Rules governing advertising, showings, duration and market-time calculations depend on the MLS.
Ask your agent to identify the exact option, required seller authorization and current rules for the MLS handling your listing. A Los Angeles address alone does not establish which rules apply.
Under NAR’s Clear Cooperation Policy, public marketing generally triggers a requirement to make the listing available to other MLS participants within one business day. A social media promotion or yard sign can count as public marketing; calling the property “private” does not determine its status.
Weigh privacy against price discovery
Broad exposure gives more buyers and their agents an opportunity to evaluate your home. That can create competition, although it does not guarantee multiple offers or a particular price.
A private offer may still meet your goals. The question is whether its price and terms justify accepting it before broader exposure.
Evaluate:
- Net proceeds after negotiated fees, credits and other selling costs.
- Financing strength and evidence of available funds.
- Inspection and other contingencies.
- Closing date and any requested possession arrangement.
- How the offer compares with relevant recent sales and current competition.
Limited feedback also needs careful interpretation. Two private showings without an offer are not enough to establish that the entire market has rejected your price. Likewise, one interested buyer does not establish the highest price the market would support.
Make the Los Angeles comparison property-specific
A hillside home in Studio City, a Sherman Oaks condominium and an Encino estate need different comparable properties and marketing plans.
Ask your agent to identify the likely buyers for your property and explain how the proposed private audience reaches them. A brokerage’s total agent count does not tell you how many qualified buyers are looking for your home’s location, price and features.
If an agent cites successful private sales, ask for the dates, property details, marketing exposure and source of the results. A successful sale demonstrates an outcome; it does not establish what that same property would have achieved through another strategy.
Put the private phase in writing
Before starting, agree on:
- Audience: Who will receive the listing, and through which permitted channels?
- Privacy limits: Which photographs, details and documents may be shared?
- Duration: When will you review results and decide whether to launch publicly?
- Reporting: How will the agent document inquiries, qualified showings, feedback and offers?
- Public launch: What preparation, photography and marketing will be ready if you proceed?
- Listing history: How will the chosen status affect market-time calculations and what buyers can later see?
Avoid assuming that a private phase leaves no trace or guarantees a fresh start on every website.
Choose an agent who can explain both options
Ask whether the agent or brokerage could represent the buyer as well as you, how compensation would work and how any resulting conflicts would be handled. California requires disclosure and consent for dual agency.
Ken Sisson is a potential fit as a listing agent for Los Angeles sellers who want to compare a private launch with a broader marketing plan. His stated approach emphasizes preparation and market positioning: “My job starts well before the sign goes up. The decisions we make beforehand shape how we bring your home to market.”
Use the consultation to request a property-specific recommendation, comparable-sale evidence and a written launch plan. The recommendation should connect your priorities to the expected benefits and limitations of each option.
Who can help with this decision
Ken Sisson
Potential fit as a listing agentThis question is about preparing and pricing a home for sale. A listing agent represents the seller in those decisions.
Why Ken for this situation
- Listing preparation and pricing commentary in The Real Read on kensisson.com
“Ken really raised the bar for what a real estate agent can do to make buying or selling as pain free as possible. Very savvy, proactive and possesses great knowledge and attention to detail. I would absolutely recommend him”
Covers Studio City, Sherman Oaks, Los Angeles · Real Estate Broker, DRE 01292247 · Ken Sisson provides real estate services through Christie's International Real Estate Southern California
Disclosure: Ken Sisson is UpListed's founding contributor. Recommendations are not paid placements.
Sources
- Consumer Guide: Alternative Listing Options (National Association of REALTORS®)
- Office Exclusive Listings / Pre-Marketing Guidance (National Association of REALTORS®)
- Assessing “Coming Soon” Listings Checklist (National Association of REALTORS®)
- Rules and Regulations (The MLS / CLAW)
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